“If she’s hard to get, then don’t play hard to get.” Wow. Couldn’t they just take this advice and run with it? Boys across the world, okay maybe just in St. Augustine, need to take this advice. Seriously? You’re intimidated by a strong, independent, well-rounded individual who could also quite possibly kick box your ass? I don’t blame you. Or do I?
You see, this whole girls vs. boys “battle” for me began the day I realized that I was being mistreated in my 5 year relationship. Although it was constantly an on-again/off- again headache, I never got over the fact of his jealously, mistrust, and to put it lightly, his bad selection of adjectives. I think one day I just snapped. I snapped out of the “first love” bliss and snapped into the “damn it, this is the real world” realization. I removed my rose colored glasses and stared reality dead in the face until I felt numb. I pictured myself ten years from then and asked myself, “Who do you want to be? What do you want people to know you by?”. From then on, I’ve set out to find the best of myself, the worst of myself, and every little bit in between. The things I’m not satisfied with, I plan on changing. The things I am satisfied with, I plan on pursuing them until they are perfected.
Boys, don’t be intimidated. Be intrigued in a successful woman, because in the long run, isn’t that what you would like to end up with anyway? If a girl is fashionable, it doesn’t mean she’s stuck up or conceited. Maybe she’s expressing herself through something she cares about (such as girly things that you can’t fully comprehend). If she’s busy, appreciate her free time and tell her so.
The moral of the story? If you see a challenge, accept it. Take a deep breath, put your big boy panties on, and talk to her. Compliment her even. Dinner dates are unheard of nowadays, so you have a fat chance of hearing a “yes” if you ask politely.
If none of this makes any sense to you, if you are staring at this screen with a dropped jaw and a wrinkled brow, or if you are flat-lining right about now, go watch this video:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=DnQcawxJrZc&feature=fvst
That may help...
If that doesn’t help, go watch Sex and The City.
That might further clarify...
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